Is it "not interested" or "hard to get" How can you tell?

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Is it "not interested" or "hard to get" How can you tell?

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    MKfencer12
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    October 13, 2013 at 6:51 am #41069
    Is it "not interested" or "hard to get" How can you tell?

    Hi. I hope someone can help me with a situation. See, I’m a college student and I am in the same class as this really cute girl. I’ve met her a month and a half ago and I got her # and SHE even asked for my Facebook but anyways we hit it off with a bang and we always hang out after class for a few minutes, we message back and forth and we even got to the point where I can caress her arms with her liking it and she always fidgets, bites her finger, plays with her hair when around me but strangely she stopped replying me on Facebook so I stopped messaging her after a couple of unreplied messages. Is it ‘hard to get’ or ‘not interested’??

    candydude
    candydude
    Participant
    October 16, 2013 at 10:30 am #41274

    I think it’s ‘not interested’

    ghostbusterbill
    ghostbusterbill
    Participant
    October 16, 2013 at 10:31 am #41275

    I agree she’s not interested. She was probably just being nice to you and then you took it too far by “caressing” her arms. Save that stuff for when you’re actually dating

    rum_tum_tum
    rum_tum_tum
    Participant
    October 16, 2013 at 10:31 am #41276

    Had to get. This gal wants you to make the move and she is not going to help you. Go for it man!

    JojoMojo
    JojoMojo
    Participant
    October 16, 2013 at 10:33 am #41280

    Here’s an idea: try talking to her in the real world, not just Facebook. Maybe that’ll provide some insight?

    sharklasers
    sharklasers
    Participant
    October 16, 2013 at 10:55 am #41313

    Here’s an idea: try talking to her in the real world, not just Facebook. Maybe that’ll provide some insight?

    Yeah if you can caress her in real life, you can talk to her in real life too.


    MKfencer12
    Participant
    October 16, 2013 at 11:13 am #41316

    haha thanks for your input everyone.. btw she has been talking to me on Facebook again and I am going to talk to her this week in class to see what’s up.


    kr1990
    Participant
    October 17, 2013 at 6:56 pm #41420

    It could be that she was hoping you would ask her out and you didn’t show she assumed you didn’t want to take it further, or it could be that she is just not interested at all.


    Mondo93
    Participant
    October 18, 2013 at 9:26 pm #41457

    I think she’s playing hard to get. If she was going with the whole caressing the arms thing, there’s no way she wouldn’t be interested


    Aero-el
    Participant
    October 19, 2013 at 8:01 pm #41460
    Reply To: Is it "not interested" or "hard to get" How can you tell?

    I think she’s playing hard to get. If she was going with the whole caressing the arms thing, there’s no way she wouldn’t be interested

    Did she flinch or pull back when you touched her? If she didn’t, then you have a go ahead. It does indeed sound like she’s ‘playing hard to get’, as you stated that she’s talking to you via Facebook now? I’d try to spend more time talking to her in real life.


    timtim23
    Participant
    October 21, 2013 at 12:05 pm #41513
    Reply To: Is it "not interested" or "hard to get" How can you tell?

    Get her alone and kiss her. Girls like to be claimed.


    RW50
    Participant
    October 28, 2013 at 1:22 pm #42018
    Reply To: Is it "not interested" or "hard to get" How can you tell?

    Not interested. Don’t worry about it. She’s too flaky. You can do better.


    linym
    Participant
    October 28, 2013 at 6:34 pm #42046
    Reply To: Is it "not interested" or "hard to get" How can you tell?

    I’m sure she was interested, then for some odd reason lost interest, and now is again. you said she started answering you again on fb, soo i guess she is interested. good luck!


    LC1JCN4
    Participant
    October 31, 2013 at 6:19 pm #42281
    Reply To: Is it "not interested" or "hard to get" How can you tell?

    Sounds like you need to actually ask her out…for a drink, coffee, something.


    glrcotton31
    Participant
    November 1, 2013 at 6:03 am #42283
    Reply To: Is it "not interested" or "hard to get" How can you tell?

    She may just be busy. You’re both in school and she may have a huge workload. You can’t really know anything until you see her face to face. Have you tried talking to her after class?

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