is she getting cold with me? should i move on?

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is she getting cold with me? should i move on?

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    vvmackvv
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    May 9, 2015 at 4:59 pm #78676
    is she getting cold with me? should i move on?

    hello,

    i need a girls perspective with my situation.
    so im talking to this girl and it seems like shes getting cold with me or just busy? couple weeks ago when we first hanged out we had fun, we were hitting of right and had sex on the first date. which was awesome. after that i didn’t see her for two weeks because i went somewhere abroad but i kept the communication open. i told her that when i get back i would love to see her and we did. we hanged out chill but didn’t have sex the 2nd time around but i was pleasuring her the whole time. at one point we talked about us, like what are we? we both admitted we like each other and i told her i would like to take this to the next level. she said yes, also mentioned she has trust issues with guys and long distance relationship. so i said alright, lets just try see how it goes. went back home and started txting her at first she was answering my txt and all that.


    vvmackvv
    Participant
    May 9, 2015 at 4:59 pm #78677

    continued***
    but i noticed that im the one always initiate the first txt. like she wont txt me unless i txt her. on the other hand, il see her posting snapchats most of the time. so i thought myself maybe i was sending her a lot of txt so i stopped for a day,give her space? and see if shes going to txt me and she didnt but posted a snapchat. so i dont know if shes gettig cold with me and just busy with school? i know she mentioned that she was busy studying couple days ago. but last night she did have time to go out.. i dont know whats my next move? should i keep going and show her that im sincere or just move on?


    lovelies25
    Participant
    May 9, 2015 at 7:40 pm #78678

    i would keep texting her unless she shows active indications that she’s not interested. i personally rarely initiate text conversations with guys i like, unless i have something in particular to say, but it doesn’t mean i like them any less, so i wouldn’t assume that alone means something.


    yellowflower1987
    Participant
    May 9, 2015 at 7:46 pm #78679

    Maybe she is just busy. Try not giving her attention for a while and see if she reaches out to you. Seems like you already communicated to her that you wanted things move forward, so I would say the ball is now in your court.


    brinl
    Participant
    May 10, 2015 at 6:16 am #78689

    Yeah man, she could just be busy. Try to not look too much into the txt’s..they can confuse you


    vvmackvv
    Participant
    May 19, 2015 at 3:38 am #79250

    *updated* ( just to give you guys more info this girl is from SF and im from LA)

    i txted her again last night, i asked her how she doing and hope everything is well and just wanted to catch up. didnt get a reply, txted her good morning earlier and said good luck on her finals , got a txt 30mins later said thank you everything is good just been really busy and i didnt reply.
    its weird cuz i saw her snapchat this weekend, she went out partying friday night, saturday family wedding and sunday bestfriends wedding. just weird for her not have to time to txt me.. idk i thought we started good because we had a good time and saw her again couple weeks after that and stayed for night.. maybe im just a pass time?