Is she interested?

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Is she interested?

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    lukers3484
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    August 28, 2017 at 12:19 pm #147241
    Is she interested?

    I recently met a girl at a festival. She has a lovely, bubbly personality and I was instantly attracted to her. On the first night, it was getting late and she had nowhere to stay so I invited her to my accommodation. We shared a bed, bit of cuddling, that’s all. The next night, another fun occasion was had and we end up going back to mine again. This time we end up sharing a lovely kiss. We part ways at the festival and I ask her can we catch up again soon and she says yes.

    A few days after the festival, I message her saying I would like to meet up and get to know her better. She didn’t reply to this. A few days after, I message again. We share a few general replies back and forth and then I ask her out on a date. She’s just starting a new job so I know she is busy but she showed a keen interest in me at the festival. What should I do now? Any advice? I don’t want to come on too strong to her.

    • This topic was modified 2 months, 4 weeks ago by  lukers3484.
    Jim1982
    Jim1982
    Participant
    August 29, 2017 at 12:20 pm #147398

    Keep it casual. With her starting new job, am sure she has a lot to do and may have bit on her mind. Every now and then contact her and see how things are going for her. After a little while, if she truly has interest, she should start contacting you. Of course, if that happens, she may be interested in you as just a friend. Anything is possible. Keep it simple and don’t constantly message her

    ladygirl
    ladygirl
    Participant
    August 30, 2017 at 9:40 am #147478

    I agree with Jim1982

    Richy Rich
    Richy Rich
    Participant
    August 30, 2017 at 5:59 pm #147684

    If she texts you back say “great to hear from you,if yiu want to meet check your schedule and let me know”


    tinder10000
    Participant
    August 30, 2017 at 10:29 pm #147692

    If she’s actively trying to reschedule even though she doesn’t reply as much, she’s def interested, just actually busy. Just send a nice text every few days. If she’s into you then she will come through.


    Jed
    Participant
    August 31, 2017 at 4:12 am #147705

    Agree that be casual, but as a guy myself, I think you can not leave it too long between messages as she may loose interest.


    wawa505
    Participant
    September 1, 2017 at 7:48 am #147845

    I agree with Jed. Tell her what you sincerely feel and give her spaces. Show interested to her job


    rickp239
    Participant
    September 1, 2017 at 10:21 pm #148001

    Play it slow.