Is she into me still or am I wasting my time?


Is she into me still or am I wasting my time?

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    July 31, 2014 at 11:42 pm #58668
    Is she into me still or am I wasting my time?

    My ex and I were best friends for about a year before we started dating. We dated for almost four years, which we fought the majority of the time. I have anger issues that I have been working on for a while. We lived together for about two years at college and come from the same hometown. We spend a good majority of time together. About four months ago, we decided that we were no longer in loved with each other and that we should be best friends instead. We both want to remain very close without the relationship stuff. We had to share a room for a month after the break up, which we got along great and had sex a few times. We have moved back home and have continued the exact same behaviors as if we were dating without the fighting. I slept with her nightly because she likes to sleep next to me. After some serious thought, I realize that I am very much in love with her and want to get back together. I told her how I felt and she responded by saying that it’s not that she doesn’t want TBC

    July 31, 2014 at 11:50 pm #58669

    A relationship with me just not right now. I’ve tried no contact but can’t seem to stay away long even and she can’t stay away from me that long either. She will call and text me and my family and friends because she gets worried. When I’m out with my friends she wants me to text her when I’m home and say goodnight to her every night. We act as if we are dating but aren’t official. She says she’s unsure of her feelings for me, yet she acts like I’m her girlfriend. I’ve suggested time apart and less physical contact like no sex and sleeping together but she doesn’t want that and neither do I. I said that I have to respect the boundaries of our break up and remain less physical with you and she responds by wanting more physical contact. I am very much in love with her and care about her happiness whether it’s with or without me. I do want to be her friend no matter what happens. I have been working and successful with my anger issues. Is she still into me? Or am I wasting my time? Help

    August 2, 2014 at 1:21 am #58706

    I think u need to sit her down and tell her. Lay out the pros an cons

    August 2, 2014 at 8:28 am #58717

    Really think man think deeply

    November 1, 2014 at 8:55 pm #66941

    Just tell her

    November 6, 2014 at 8:17 pm #67156

    Just tell her!