Is she messing with my by being friendly or actually flirting?

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Is she messing with my by being friendly or actually flirting?

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    agk8450
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    January 2, 2014 at 7:12 pm #45671
    Is she messing with my by being friendly or actually flirting?

    I asked this girl that I liked over the summer and she rejected me. She wanted to be friends because she thought a break up would make us not talk to each other forever. I was pretty sad but once school started and I saw her again, our friend relationship has gotten more comfortable. I keep flirting with her and one day we fed each other left over lunch after a field trip. Then today, I asked for gum and instead of giving me the long wriggly’s piece she just pulled out, she gave me a chiclet and shoved her fingers in my mouth. Umm… what?! I was completely shocked. Not sure if friendly or flirty. Should I try and ask her again? Valentine is coming up but im not sure… she hasn’t liked anyone every since this one guy who was a a**hole which was a year before I asked her in summer. I can’t stop thinking about her and I really want to care for her more than just a friend. What should I do?


    agk8450
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    January 2, 2014 at 7:32 pm #45672

    I forgot to also mention she asked me to come to her house but it was like 9 and i said I couldn’t.

    ijurbangirl
    ijurbangirl
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    January 2, 2014 at 8:14 pm #45673

    Yeah I would ask her out at that point also you need to define what your relationship status is with heR. Thats a bit too friendly for my taste.