Is she really interested?

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Is she really interested?

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    Baxxx
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    April 8, 2018 at 1:31 am #169886
    Is she really interested?

    Coming off a 9 year relationship (its been a year since the split) I’ve figured its time to give dating a shot. Obviously I feel a bit rusty. So at a meeting/class the other night, I see this girl I’ve never seen before. Beautiful. And throughout the whole night it seemed like we couldn’t keep our eyes off each other. I was able to catch her name, but we got lost in the crowd afterwards. I just figured it was some fluke, and we’d likely never see each other again, yet I kept thinking about her in the following days. Then this morning, I wake up to a Facebook request from her. Silly? I know. But I’m not sure she even knew my name, and how she was able to track me down.

    Question is, is this a clear sign of interest from her? Or am I just reading too much into it? After not having to court a woman for nearly a decade, am I being overeager? If not, how do I proceed from here?


    mary445
    Participant
    April 8, 2018 at 8:20 am #169888

    Hey! usually if I go through the effort of finding a someone on facebook and even sending them a friend request it does mean something. It doesn‘t have to mean that she thinks you’re her soulmate or that she can imagine herself in a relationship with you or even meeting you, but it does mean that she thought about you and that you must have left some kind of (probably very good) impression. In your Situation I‘d wait a few days to maybe send her a message, if she doesn’t send one first, and then try to initiate a conversation!
    Best of luck!

    • This reply was modified 2 weeks, 2 days ago by  mary445. Reason: Typos

    PRW
    Participant
    April 8, 2018 at 12:50 pm #169897

    Screw Facebook.
    Use FB messaging to ask her for her contact info.
    If she doesn’t give it to you she is not interested
    If she gives it to you then offer her a date about 4-5 days out from when you offer,…no chit-chat in between, no confirmation call before the date.
    If she accepts and shows up things look positive.
    If she declines, or accepts but then “no-shows”,…she is not interested

    Problem solved.


    Javsidvdy1
    Participant
    April 8, 2018 at 10:13 pm #169914

    Yes bro


    foothorski27
    Participant
    April 9, 2018 at 7:26 am #169921

    Yeah dude she took the time to hunt you down on Facebook, she’s definitely interested in you. Just accept her request, flirt with her a lil and ask her out. You’ll know if she’s really interested then.