Is she trying to pull away?

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Is she trying to pull away?

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    NewtIsaac
    Participant
    May 15, 2013 at 6:28 pm #31337
    Is she trying to pull away?

    I met a woman who gave me her number after we met on match.com. She said she would be able to meet within a week of the exchange .Things went great, we’ve been talking on the phone and chatting online for 2 weeks now. Everything seemed great and we had mentioned having memorial day plans to go tot he water and do some site seeing. She brought it up a couple times so it seemed like a planned event for us.

    Just these past few days she hasn’t said a word to me, no text message or call. Should I consider our plans done? I’ve tried calling her and no answer. I don’t want to seem eager but everything seems to have been flowing so organically. What should I do?

    RAlbert
    RAlbert
    Participant
    May 26, 2014 at 3:34 pm #53742

    I got to tell you my friend in my experiences I found that women are curious creatures. Men love the hunt and women love the challenge of keeping a man she is interested in any way she can. If you are all of a sudden getting the silent treatment act like it doesn’t bother you and move on. If she is interested she will get in touch, if she doesn’t at least you do not look desperate. That is a sure turn off for women. They love confident men. So be confident and know if she doesn’t want you someone will.

    Rey


    steve123
    Participant
    May 29, 2014 at 2:28 pm #54050

    I agree don’t make yourself look desperate or needy if you feel the need to ask why the plans didn’t workout then you could so if you like. If she says something like an emergency came up be understandable but at the same time any reason she gives, or if she gives one at all, see if it seems legit if not then she probably changed her mind and doesn’t want to hang out. If that happens then just simply move on.


    Casting
    Participant
    May 30, 2014 at 4:17 pm #54153

    I agree


    shastablack
    Participant
    May 30, 2014 at 8:06 pm #54160

    I think she’s blowing you off. However, with me being a 29 year old woman, it DOES hit my ego if I blow off a giy and he doesn’t seem to care.

    Don’t reach out to her again. She really may come back. If she doesn’t, you saved face.

    Also…don’t put all your eggs in her basket!


    Jake212197
    Participant
    May 31, 2014 at 10:46 am #54170

    Do it!


    vvmackvv
    Participant
    June 4, 2014 at 3:13 am #54404

    just wait, if no response just moved on.


    Anonymous
    June 4, 2014 at 9:12 am #54408

    Wait for her to response, in a woman’s point of view she might be afraid to date someone he hasn’t seen and meet yet, so give her time and make her realize that you are a trustworthy person.