Is this a break or room to think?

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Is this a break or room to think?

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    ConfusedOne83
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    February 17, 2015 at 5:51 pm #73641
    Is this a break or room to think?

    I am a 31 year old female and have had difficult relationships and can pick up on things pretty quickly, but this one I just don’t know what to do or think. I met this guy online, but it never went anywhere until I ran into him and met him. Maybe, about 2-3 weeks later we went on dates and got to know one another. We were both very excited as everyone is. Both in our 30’s and we both knew what we wanted from this. We got serious pretty quick and shared the things we wanted. We haven’t been together long (3 months or so) however, feelings developed. He was very open about his feelings and so was I. He was over often. Helping me with things around my house. I always let him know how much I appreciated him (something I learned from my past relationships) we did argue about small thing but usually overcame them and talked about it. There was a night where he went through my phone and read through old texts (texts prior to him) but didn’t take notice to the dates and left me in the middle


    ConfusedOne83
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    February 17, 2015 at 5:52 pm #73642

    of the night and in my opinion I thought we patched that up. There was another argument when he packed his things up and left in the middle of it. Now, about a week ago we went to bed and I got this vibe like he didn’t want to be there, so I asked if he wanted to be here? He replied “of course I do. Why do you think otherwise?” I told him that it was just a feeling I had. He asked why I felt like that way and all I could say was because I do.. Then he began attacking me with questions on why I feel the way I do. I just wanted a simple answer, not an argument before bed. Everytime I responded my voice began to crack even more so I asked if him if he could go home, something I regret I just didn’t want the situation to spiral into something worse. The next day I asked if he wanted to meet up for lunch to either talk or just eat… no response from him. The next day I sent another message to him letting him I know I hoped he was well.. he responded “Thanx. U too” Yesterday, I sent ”I’ve