Is this worth my time and effort??

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Is this worth my time and effort??

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    missbliss
    missbliss
    Participant
    September 3, 2015 at 12:35 am #85035
    Is this worth my time and effort??

    I’ve been taking to this guy for just about 2 months. We have great conversations. We started out texting. After 3 weeks, we started talking on the phone just about every night. We’ve made plans a couple times to meet but his job is getting in the way of actually doing so. He says he REALLY wants to meet me and that he very much looks forward to it. It really makes me happy just talking to him. But I’m wondering if this is too long to be talking and have yet to meet eachother? I’m getting a little impatient, do you think it’s too early for that? I don’t want to invest any more time in something that may not even happen. Also, we only live about 30 miles away from one another, but those 30 miles separating us is the Atlantic Ocean which makes it a little bit more difficult but also not impossible. Should I wait this out or am I being led on?


    Stevennaidoo
    Participant
    September 3, 2015 at 3:40 pm #85100

    No


    GS17
    Participant
    September 5, 2015 at 10:36 am #85144

    No, if he really wanted to see you, he’d make time to go to you.


    Anonymous
    September 5, 2015 at 2:09 pm #85151

    NO. DON’T DO THAT………….
    HE SHOULD FIRST


    12mustangjenn
    Participant
    September 6, 2015 at 3:10 pm #85198

    You can give him more time to get himself together, as he may very well be interested and busy. However, don’t sit around and wait for him. Continue to date other people. Don’t give him the impression that you are sitting around waiting for him, as not to appear needy or desperate, which can turn guys off. Also, don’t continuously ask him when you are getting together. If he should ask what you are doing certain nights, if you have plans, tell him so. And don’t cancel plans you make if he suddenly decides he wants to meet. Letting him know you have a life and other people are interested may be what he needs to get his act together and make a date, already.


    arose89
    Participant
    September 6, 2015 at 3:32 pm #85200

    Give him a timeframe and be honest. If nothing then, leave it.

    FakeRice
    FakeRice
    Participant
    September 18, 2015 at 1:22 pm #85593

    Is that relationship gonna work anyway if you have such a hard time meeting eachother?


    jakejake2115
    Participant
    September 20, 2015 at 12:08 am #85618

    No. Good things come to those who wait


    wenisboy
    Participant
    September 20, 2015 at 7:35 pm #85629
    Reply To: Is this worth my time and effort??

    Nope.


    markjp12
    Participant
    September 20, 2015 at 11:12 pm #85638
    Reply To: Is this worth my time and effort??

    I don’t think you should it seems a little to much

    missbliss
    missbliss
    Participant
    September 22, 2015 at 8:26 am #85668
    Reply To: Is this worth my time and effort??

    Catching a boat to visit him next weekend! Thanks to anybody who gave positive feedback 🙂 wish me luck


    juliadanno
    Participant
    September 24, 2015 at 5:37 pm #85907
    Reply To: Is this worth my time and effort??

    no dont just give him some time if not then leave


    korey
    Participant
    September 25, 2015 at 7:23 am #85926
    Reply To: Is this worth my time and effort??

    wait for sometime


    Jmac
    Participant
    September 29, 2015 at 11:01 pm #86220
    Reply To: Is this worth my time and effort??

    Let him initiate and play a little hard to get. Try distracting yourself don’t talk all the time be unavailable


    toast23
    Participant
    October 4, 2015 at 3:27 am #86443
    Reply To: Is this worth my time and effort??

    Take it from a guys perspective, he’s not interested. If I was interested, I’d have seen you by now

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