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missblissParticipantSeptember 3, 2015 at 12:35 am #85035
I’ve been taking to this guy for just about 2 months. We have great conversations. We started out texting. After 3 weeks, we started talking on the phone just about every night. We’ve made plans a couple times to meet but his job is getting in the way of actually doing so. He says he REALLY wants to meet me and that he very much looks forward to it. It really makes me happy just talking to him. But I’m wondering if this is too long to be talking and have yet to meet eachother? I’m getting a little impatient, do you think it’s too early for that? I don’t want to invest any more time in something that may not even happen. Also, we only live about 30 miles away from one another, but those 30 miles separating us is the Atlantic Ocean which makes it a little bit more difficult but also not impossible. Should I wait this out or am I being led on?
GS17ParticipantSeptember 5, 2015 at 10:36 am #85144
No, if he really wanted to see you, he’d make time to go to you.
AnonymousSeptember 5, 2015 at 2:09 pm #85151
NO. DON’T DO THAT………….
HE SHOULD FIRST
12mustangjennParticipantSeptember 6, 2015 at 3:10 pm #85198
You can give him more time to get himself together, as he may very well be interested and busy. However, don’t sit around and wait for him. Continue to date other people. Don’t give him the impression that you are sitting around waiting for him, as not to appear needy or desperate, which can turn guys off. Also, don’t continuously ask him when you are getting together. If he should ask what you are doing certain nights, if you have plans, tell him so. And don’t cancel plans you make if he suddenly decides he wants to meet. Letting him know you have a life and other people are interested may be what he needs to get his act together and make a date, already.
arose89ParticipantSeptember 6, 2015 at 3:32 pm #85200
Give him a timeframe and be honest. If nothing then, leave it.
FakeRiceParticipantSeptember 18, 2015 at 1:22 pm #85593
Is that relationship gonna work anyway if you have such a hard time meeting eachother?
jakejake2115ParticipantSeptember 20, 2015 at 12:08 am #85618
No. Good things come to those who wait
wenisboyParticipantSeptember 20, 2015 at 7:35 pm #85629
markjp12ParticipantSeptember 20, 2015 at 11:12 pm #85638
I don’t think you should it seems a little to much
missblissParticipantSeptember 22, 2015 at 8:26 am #85668
Catching a boat to visit him next weekend! Thanks to anybody who gave positive feedback 🙂 wish me luck
juliadannoParticipantSeptember 24, 2015 at 5:37 pm #85907
no dont just give him some time if not then leave
koreyParticipantSeptember 25, 2015 at 7:23 am #85926
wait for sometime
JmacParticipantSeptember 29, 2015 at 11:01 pm #86220
Let him initiate and play a little hard to get. Try distracting yourself don’t talk all the time be unavailable
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