Keeping the flare alive

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Keeping the flare alive

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    ipawnu
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    March 16, 2014 at 2:43 pm #49345
    Keeping the flare alive

    Any texting tips to keep the “flare” alive for a week before our first date? We met a week ago, I have been texting her this week and I am coming up next week for a family thing and we are going to go on a date. We have been texting less and less through the week. I want to keep talking to her but don’t want to seem to desperate. I can’t just not talk to her for the entire week, so any tips on what and how often I should be texting her during the week?

    background:
    I am a freshman in college, she is a senior in high school. She texted me first he the first 2 days in the mourning, and we texted on and off all day. Since then, things I have sorta died down only texted her for like 10minutes yesterday. Trying to keep the flare alive for another week.


    indychris42
    Participant
    March 16, 2014 at 6:42 pm #49347

    Be open and ask her. Try to be funny in your text to keep her wanting more attention.


    lostinlove
    Participant
    March 17, 2014 at 5:10 pm #49392

    i am in the same boat! except i am a junior in college and she is gradutaed from college! she just turned 23 and is now divorced- they were only married since november. i need your type of advice brother!


    lostboy289
    Participant
    March 22, 2014 at 8:40 pm #49651

    Id say don’t ask her. Keep the flare alive naturally. You cant try and force it. Start up a conversation and see if she is receptive.