Kind of silly problem.


Kind of silly problem.

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    April 4, 2018 at 3:32 pm #169603
    Kind of silly problem.

    I realize I probably shouldn’t be worrying about dating until late highschool (probably shouldn’t even post on here) but in a high school freshman and I’m not actively looking for a date but I feel like I have low chances because of 1 simple issue.
    I have a big gut.
    I’m 5’6, white, short brown hair, pale blue eyes.
    Kind of hairy but I shave my face.
    All around ok looking in my book, except I have a big gut. I’m not “fat” on the rest of my body except for my belly. I realized when I hit 160 pounds that I needed to exercise. So I did and I lost 10 pounds in almost a week. So I was getting cocky and thought it would be that easy for the rest of it (my goal was 140 pounds btw) but once I hit 150 no matter how much I exercised and dieted, I wouldn’t drop below 150 pounds and despite losing 10 pounds I haven’t noticed the tiniest difference in my appearance.
    I’m still going to exercise and diet because its healthy for you, But idk if I can find a date with this gut problem. Any advice?

    April 6, 2018 at 2:20 pm #169835

    The gut you can take care of. You’re young,…try fixing that when you are 55yo.

    The biggest thing in the way of dating right now is that you don’t have a car and don’t have a job. You have no way to get there and no money to go if you did have a way to get there.