kissing on the first date- HELP please

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kissing on the first date- HELP please

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    MoneyTree
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    December 5, 2012 at 3:30 pm #18219
    kissing on the first date- HELP please

    I met a girl on okCupid and we’re going on a date this weekend and I’m a bit nervous. Any dating tips on what I should do? Like I think we’re gonna hit it off, we get a long so well online and we’ve been texting each other a lot so I think we’re gonna click! I’m excited to get close to her and get to know her better, think it’d be a bad idea to kiss on the first date? I know I’m jumping the gun but I’m trying to plan it out before I get to the date itself 🙂

    Any advice will help! thanks!

    bubblyjo
    bubblyjo
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    December 6, 2012 at 10:09 am #18300

    I bet it’ll be really exciting! Treat it like any real first date, and think about it-you really don’t KNOW this girl, she could be some wild or boring person and could be completely opposite of what you’ve imagined her to be.

    I’m not trying to be too harsh, just want you to remain realistic. Be respectful, DON’T jump the gun and take it slow! If you’re really excited and it seems like it’s gonna be a hit, don’t move on too quickly. Even when it seems like a kiss goodbye might be right, it never hurts to save it until next time, nothing wrong with building the suspense for date #2 !

    isis_brown
    isis_brown
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    December 13, 2012 at 6:18 pm #18784

    Don’t just jump in heads first, you can really take your time with any new relationship. Don’t rush it just because you have some online chemistry, it might be different in person.

    MoneyTree
    MoneyTree
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    December 17, 2012 at 4:05 pm #18954

    so the date went really well! We went to a nearby holiday party and had a great time socializing with others. She’s very outgoing and was great with my other friends. We’ve been out on 2 other official dates and I DID wait on kissing her on the first one 🙂

    We both knew it’d be worth it to wait. We have kissed though, it was when we met out at a bar and I dropped her off at home where it happened. We both smiled after and we’ve been texting ever since. I’m pretty happy!