Little lost! Need help!

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Little lost! Need help!

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    Lance
    Lance
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    September 26, 2017 at 3:16 am #150338
    Little lost! Need help!

    I have been single a long time and not really dated for 5 years . I recently started a new job .About month after I started a new staff member came on bored and he instantly turned my head. We were not in immediate contact because he worked mornings, I work afternoons .But for the past 2 and half weeks we work the same shift .We come into contact with each other allot. I like him but very unsure if he likes me and how to proceed. I am his supervisor and have to keep my professionalism, which makes things a little tricky.We always catch each others eye ( I do mean always) with prolonged gazing, always “playing” teasing each other. He is always very close in my personal space . He is always laughing at my jokes, more then any one else . When he needs help, he comes to me, rather then his other work colleagues or supervisors. He has a very relaxed demeanour, and find that difficult to read.

    I am not sure if he is gay. I don’t want to mess up a friendship, because I miss read things.


    Rembos
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    September 26, 2017 at 5:46 am #150347

    Well there are a couple of telltails you could use to see if he’s interested. Try to keep eye-contact for longer than 3 seconds, if he keeps contact. Then it might say something. Men are natural teasers and that usually is the only way they can talk to a girl. Don’t wait for him to ask you out, many guys don’t want to do that, because of the same reason you just said. He might think, shit if she says no, i have to work with someone who shot me down the whole time.


    cdnrose
    Participant
    September 26, 2017 at 10:11 am #150404

    I would say it is a no-go zone. You are his supervisor and you should keep work and personal life separate. Starting a work place romance almost always ends bad in my experience

    Lance
    Lance
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    September 26, 2017 at 1:38 pm #150436

    I would say it is a no-go zone. You are his supervisor and you should keep work and personal life separate. Starting a work place romance almost always ends bad in my experience

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    He would have to make the first move . There would have to be a few ground rules thats for sure regarding our behaviour at work and out off it .

    But I don’t think he is interested in me. I just think he finds me different, intriguing.When you have been single as long as me, you live in hope. One some one like this comes along who shows a little interest its hard to ignore.