Long Distance Trouble


Long Distance Trouble

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    December 6, 2014 at 6:00 pm #68828
    Long Distance Trouble

    This is going to be long…
    This guy and I fell in love over the summer and started dating then broke up so we could build a stronger foundation first. We go 2 different colleges and r 2 hrs away. At some point in sept, he stopped talking to me (after he slowly started talking to me less). For 2 months I was heartbroken, but he eventually called to explain that he was scared about the long distance and still had trust issues from his previous relationship. He also said he felt like he cldnt give me all of him so he backed out. After he said this we started talking again, but now it seems like its happening all over again. He’s under a lot of stress right now, trying to decide if he wants to change career paths and move even farther away from me. He’s been talking to me a lot less where he doesn’t answer my calls, or says he’ll call back and he doesn’t. He might talk 2 me for 5 mins or text a couple times but it’s not often. Is this normal if hes stressed or should I be worried?

    Alex Ryder
    December 6, 2014 at 9:57 pm #68829

    I’d say it’s normal if he’s going to college with the work, I don’t think you should be worried. Only if it keeps happening after he’s done with it.

    December 8, 2014 at 9:04 am #68858

    but at the same time, he went from calling and texting me constantly to close to no communication. and he talks to me differently, he’ll call me by my name instead of “baby” or “hun”. Is that just the stress?