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    October 29, 2017 at 3:29 pm #154395
    Looking For Advice

    Hello, I recently started to text a guy which I met on Tinder. He liked me first and as soon as I liked him back we matched. It started off well straight well and we moved off tinder to snap chatting just general chit-chat (Hi how are you, what interests you, just generally getting to know one another) then he started not to reply, I have done nothing wrong as my friends have read the chat and they also said he is being rude opening the message and not replying ( P.S I didn’t text him again after) he has been active on social media since and chooses not to reply to my messages, it has been a few days and he still hasn’t replied. It is clear from his previous messages that he indeed is showing interest and this is confusing me(my friends also agree) all I think to myself is is have I done something wrong or is he playing hard to get or is that just him or am I just over thinking the situation. He is a capricorn and i am a Pisces. Could anyone please help me out.

    Thanks Dylan 🙂

    November 16, 2017 at 6:12 pm #156716

    No it’s not you….just move on. He’s probably talking to lots of other people and just left your chat. It’s horrible but don’t think about it too deeply. Luckily you didn’t meet him face to face or had something going on long term.

    November 16, 2017 at 8:08 pm #156720


    Move on. There is nothing wrong with you or anything. He is a guy who has lots of options ( tinder). He most likely is chatting to a number of girls. If he is not answering or reciprocating that is your answer. Don’t take it so personally. You have to understand that when you are on these sites that you are going to have to get through a lot of duds before you hit a winner. You have to expect a bit of ignoring , ghosting and deleting. Play the game.
    Love yourself and the one that wants to talk to you will.

    November 16, 2017 at 8:42 pm #156721

    Better to stop communicating on him, it means he is not interested with you.. glad that you did not meet him already.

    November 28, 2017 at 7:40 am #157541

    Some guys are finicky about that. I know a lot of people who’ll open a text and not response, myself included. However, that’s generally limited to friends/family members, I DO plan on texting them back at some point, though. However I’ve always been glued to my phone during the honey moon phase of dating and texting right back and forth.

    November 28, 2017 at 9:05 pm #157686

    Love is always the best … hard to understand!

    March 25, 2018 at 4:28 am #168335

    I just wanted to tell you that you did nothing wrong. people on dating apps aren;t always the best. don’t get hung up on him. your too good for him