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    Nycgal40
    Nycgal40
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    January 26, 2017 at 3:27 pm #124650
    Lost for words

    I was seeing this older man through Facebook which he wanted to get to know me better. We started hooking up since November and now this year i have noticed that he started to have an online relationship with this young woman (31) around the same age as his daughter, i have noticed that they were being very flirty with each other and conversating with her more than me. i was very upset behind it. then when i had spoken to him about it he tries to deny it by saying “she’s just a friend”, i really don’t believe that at all. so, i approached her on Facebook in a nice way, and she started to curse me out every name in the book which i was very shocked by. when i sent it to him, and i said really? now i knew you were very sneaky behind my back”. then that’s when i made my move to block him from my Facebook friends list and proceeded to block his cell number from my cell phone. i felt good doing it and it was the best thing i ever did. Do you think that it is right that i had him blocked?

    richiro
    richiro
    Participant
    January 26, 2017 at 5:42 pm #124706

    is it your “belief” they are having a relatoinship?”
    or do oyu have actual proof they are having a relationship?

    “belief” and “reality’ are not always the same… especially from a significant other.

    Nycgal40
    Nycgal40
    Participant
    January 27, 2017 at 9:35 am #124739

    yes they were flirting the whole time, i have a screen shot of it and showed it to my other friends, and they said to drop him. so i did.

    richiro
    richiro
    Participant
    January 27, 2017 at 2:56 pm #124801

    flirting is not a relatoinship. plenty of people flirt that are not in a relationship nor intend to be in one.
    what else do yu have for “proof”?

    richiro
    richiro
    Participant
    January 27, 2017 at 2:56 pm #124802

    yeah the deciison to drop him or not is independent so if that’s waht you wanted.. no problem with that.
    but you did not have “proof of a relationship” between the two..