Lost out on a great chance–Need help!

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Lost out on a great chance–Need help!

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    mixerz77
    mixerz77
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    December 10, 2012 at 4:00 pm #18515
    Lost out on a great chance–Need help!

    So real quick:

    I dated a girl for 3 months kind of without a title since we were both pretty busy (she has school, I have work). Since we ended on good terms, we were able to still go out and meet other people. I think she got comfortable with our distance and decided to truly move on when I feel like I missed out on something amazing.

    I text her saying I missed her but she said I was being confusing-which I’m sure I was being. So anyway in between our back and forth interests (she says she misses me now too) I think she’s just keeping me close just to keep me happy.

    How do I tell her I’m still interested but only if she wants a long term relationship? I don’t want to scare her, that’s why I’m debating telling her or not..
    Any advice would be awesome!


    blogitt_now
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    December 11, 2012 at 10:25 am #18540

    Take her out on a one-on-one date! Make her feel special and that you will take care of her. Try to talk about it after a couple dates and see if she’d be willing to commit to you again. If you know what scares her, then don’t go anywhere that’ll build too much pressure. Have fun– Don’t get your panties in a bundle over it!

    bubblyjo
    bubblyjo
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    December 16, 2012 at 8:25 pm #18909

    I agree with the last comment. You two need to sit down and chat before you get too confused

    longing4connection
    longing4connection
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    March 22, 2017 at 3:58 pm #130852

    I would LOVE it if a man told me that he didn’t want to miss out on something amazing: me!!!