Making excuses yet showing interest still?

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Making excuses yet showing interest still?

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    emmahattie
    Participant
    August 23, 2014 at 11:55 pm #59900
    Making excuses yet showing interest still?

    To cut a long story short I met this guy online around 4 months ago + we’ve been talking every day since. We went on our first date during July, I took the train to him + we went to the pub, had a few drinks etc. We had a cute little kiss on the platform when my train pulled up. That night he was texting me about how much I mean to him/how he’s so glad he’s met me. He calls me his girl and his princess + always says how he wishes I was there.
    Only problem is, it’s been over a month since I’ve see him. He was ill for a week and a half which is fair but he’s had no excuse since! I ask him if he wants to make plans + he says ‘we’ll do something soon’ or ‘we’ll talk about it tomorrow’ + he wont bring it up again unless I do. So he’s pretty much turning down my date suggestions even though he’s still talking to me everyday. I’ve already told him I think he’s stringing me along + he said ‘why would he string me along when its not as if I’m ‘just there to use’ cause I’m in another town? HELP

    funnygirl123
    funnygirl123
    Participant
    August 24, 2014 at 8:54 am #59911

    Maybe it could be useful to ask him straight – are you interested in dating me? If so, you will both make the time, and any conflicts or issues he has you can sort out together. If not it is really his loss. I mean, why would you want to waste your precious time on someone that doesn’t want to be with you, when you can spend it on somebody who does? Do what is best for you. Good Luck <3

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 1 month ago by funnygirl123 funnygirl123.

    jb1318
    Participant
    August 24, 2014 at 10:25 am #59922

    I would say NEXT! If someone is really into you they don’t wait to make a next date. Ive made next date plans with girls on the current date. Seems like some game he is playing. Call him out and move on.


    Crod1219
    Participant
    November 19, 2014 at 6:01 pm #67802

    Next. If I’m into someone, I want to see that person as much as possible.


    perception
    Participant
    November 20, 2014 at 12:38 pm #67819

    He has other women on the hook. He is a player and keeping you on the back burner for a back up or he’s married. Never go to the man from the start, make him come to you the first few times.