Man's advice on a nervous guy that seems to like me

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Man's advice on a nervous guy that seems to like me

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    lostinspace1973
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    August 7, 2017 at 7:54 am #144432
    Man's advice on a nervous guy that seems to like me

    Known this guy for 3yrs, hardly ever speak. Over the past couple of mths he’s been liking & commenting on my FB posts, it wasn’t something I took much notice of until recently. In June I made a comment on his Insta story. He replied instantly,we chatted in the evening & he asked me what dating apps I was on – it was a light hearted conversation. We got chatting about F1/sports (see him every couple of weeks at circuits) & we swap pleasantries but it’s difficult to hold a conversation as he’s always busy. I saw him yesterday and he seems really nervous around me. I walked past him a couple of times & saw him glancing at me. We did speak and ask each other how we were etc., but he does seem shy and nervous in person. Friends read the conversations & they tell me he is definitely flirting with me and I should ask him out. His replies are long & detailed so he will reply to every bit of my message. I am so out of the dating game that I am scared to grow those balls and to ask him out.

    Tired
    Tired
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    August 7, 2017 at 3:41 pm #144517

    Stalemate. You’re not asking him out and he’s not asking you out.
    But, don’t ask him out on a date or say that it’s a date. Ask if he wants to come hang out and do something you like to do. But if you think he likes you and he’s really nervous around you give him some reassurance and tell him you think he’s cute.


    gabe755
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    August 16, 2017 at 4:54 am #145642

    This is one of those situations where you or the other person basically needs to make a move at some point or it will become too awkward and die off.