Messaging A Boy First On Social Media

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Messaging A Boy First On Social Media

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  • pizzalover131
    Participant
    August 19, 2016 at 9:37 pm #108954
    Messaging A Boy First On Social Media

    I followed a boy on social media that I think is really cute. He goes to a different college than me, but I know a girl that is a mutual connection. Is it weird to randomly message him? If I did do it, what would I even say?


    Dorax
    Participant
    August 21, 2016 at 3:35 pm #108997

    Just go for it! If you get rejected or anything who cares? It’s not like you’re emotionally involved. 🙂


    emsmith87
    Participant
    August 29, 2016 at 2:45 pm #109843

    I haven’t done that and always wanted to. If you want to I say go for it. Just say something casual and see if he takes the lead. If not you haven’t lost anything by trying.

    CharGrant22
    CharGrant22
    Participant
    August 29, 2016 at 5:50 pm #109877

    Ya, I think it is totally ok to send a short message saying “hi”. LESS IS MORE.. ” Hey There, I noticed we are both friends with so n so and I wanted to say hi.” That’s it. If it is the right time for him to reach out to a girl and he is into YOU. He will ask you out. Don’t force it. Just a civil nudge will do. 🙂 good luck.


    klmnop
    Participant
    August 29, 2016 at 7:59 pm #109882

    Yeah if i were you i would go for it, but make sure that it seems as though you have an apparent reason to text him, because truth is it might seem a little weird.. Or tell your friend to hang out with him or so.


    Notsure_17
    Participant
    August 31, 2016 at 4:34 pm #110288

    Go for it but be cool!


    College2020
    Participant
    August 31, 2016 at 8:43 pm #110301

    I agree with CharGrant22, You should go for it as life is short. You never know, maybe he is just as afraid of messaging you as you are him. Good luck!


    Dee
    Participant
    September 2, 2016 at 9:09 am #110389

    Go for it ! You have nothing to loose really and if he doesn’t respond then you’ll be able to move on and maybe start to notice other guys that are into you 🙂