Messed up with incredible girl (?) – need women's advice


Messed up with incredible girl (?) – need women's advice

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    July 31, 2017 at 4:45 pm #143731
    Messed up with incredible girl (?) – need women's advice

    I met a girl at a pub, got her number and asked her out. We had an amazing date and it was clear we were both into each other.

    Over the next weeks we texted A LOT, spent weekends together, eventually sleeping together twice. Although sex wasn’t great because I was nervous/under a lot of stress during that time, everything went well. We both showed lots of affection and initiative.

    We didn’t see each other for a week because of work, then things went south. She wouldn’t text first at all and reply in one-liners if I did. She suggested another date, but cancelled the day before. After two weeks of mostly silence I asked her what’s going on and she said she quickly loses interest if there’s too much contact. Although she initiated more than I did, I just said I understood and that was it – no contact since.

    I’m lost – should I pursue her again, wait some more or give up on her? I never clicked with a girl like that and felt it was mutual until she turned cold out of nowhere.

    August 1, 2017 at 9:19 am #143778

    Text her again to see if she’s interested in the convo and if it doesn’t sound like she is you may want to just move on. It could be her way of saying she’s not into you without actually saying it.