Met a guy online and need some advises!


Met a guy online and need some advises!

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    August 5, 2017 at 1:53 am #144369
    Met a guy online and need some advises!

    I am a foreigner. I am still learning how to date in here so I need some dating advises from you guys. Please forgive my language issue 🙂
    I met a guy online two weeks ago( he is 40 and I am 28). we haven’t meet yet because he is building his business and travel a lot. We message every day and having video call sometimes. He is great for now and I really enjoy the time we chat. However, I feel insecure that we don’t have time to meet. I know he is busy but I worry I will invest emotion on him. I wanna bring it up to him but I don’t wanna be pushy. And I never date someone older than me before I am a little worry about that. I don’t know what he will be interesting on and I don’t wanna bother him since he is busy.
    I know I might a little overthinking but I need some advice here 🙂

    August 6, 2017 at 5:15 pm #144399

    It’s hard when you start chatting to someone online, because you are entering someone’s life when they might already have plans. I always try and meet someone within a couple of weeks (taking into account holidays etc). I’d maybe suggest a couple of dates in the next couple of weeks. He says he is building his business, but this can’t be indefinitely; if he wants someone in his life he has to make time for it. Be understanding but also put yourself first at this early stage. Wishing you the best of luck!