Met a very nice waitress, need to break the ice. Need some advice

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Met a very nice waitress, need to break the ice. Need some advice

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    Shinigami
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    April 24, 2016 at 11:06 am #98631
    Met a very nice waitress, need to break the ice. Need some advice

    So i went to a restaurant with my mom this evening for her birthday and we had a great time. A young lady there, a waitress brought us our food and that was that. As soon as i saw here i thought to myself..”damn, that’s a nice lady.” While we were eating i noticed that she glanced at me a few times while she was just waiting for customers. And when i paid for the food and we left, she said ”goodbye” in a certain way. Of course it could all be in my head and that it’s nothing, but i have a feeling the interest was mutual. Let’s just call it that.

    It’s a fantastic place and definitely not too pricey, so i am gonna go there more often for a full meal or a quick bite. Let’s say i see her again next time….what is a good way to break the ice? I am absolutely terrible at small talk, i don’t like it, but then who does? I just never really know what to say. My intention is to basically ask her out for a drink, but i can’t just do that out of the blue.

    Trinityalways
    Trinityalways
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    April 26, 2016 at 3:44 pm #98845

    Go back see if she is available. If she is grab a napkin and a straw make a white flag wave it at her . Napkin will say ” I’m a man of few words but brave with action”. 😉