Mixed responses. What should my next step be?


Mixed responses. What should my next step be?

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    August 20, 2017 at 3:19 am #146183
    Mixed responses. What should my next step be?

    I know I might be overeating. So please excuse me for that!

    If a guy texts a girl out on the same night, and she says “Sorry, cant tonight, maybe some other day”, I would usually assume that the girl is trying to be “nice” and is just not interested. The thing is… I know that she is interested in me. I know this because she always talks to her best friend about me, and her best friend talks to my best friend, who tells me that she is interested. I know for a fact that she was busy that night (found out after I texted her), but if you were interested in a guy wouldn’t you try to reschedule the date? I didn’t respond to decline message yet. I wasn’t sure what to say really. I know there isn’t a universal rule that all girls do the same thing, but I want to know what you guys think I should do now? Should I wait for this girl to respond with a reschedule or a hello, or do I wait 4-5 days and ask her one more time?


    August 21, 2017 at 1:05 pm #146340

    Give it a bit of time, she if she engages over a few days and asks you to hang out. If not, then think of something really exciting to do with soon!