Moving back and wanting an old fling…

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Moving back and wanting an old fling…

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    mauigirl
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    September 28, 2013 at 5:31 pm #40195
    Moving back and wanting an old fling…

    Advice please?
    I met a man a year and a half ago and we hit it off but I was fresh out of a long relationship and he to was going thru some personal stuff. We only went out a couple times but shared our insecurities. I also helped him with some health issues and he has since called me his savior. We have a few close friends in common. I was told that I probably shouldn’t date him because he was going thru stuff. He started dating someone else but I was told he wasn’t into her and liked me. I only saw him a couple times in passing. Each time he was extremely attentive and flirty, but still a gentleman.

    I moved away 6 months ago. The weekend before leaving we ran into each other and i told him the news. He was upset and said he had messed up and wished he hadn’t been so scared. He said that he had just become single and thought he had time.
    A few months ago he called drunk telling me he loved me and was waiting for me. I told him I was moving back in August. I haven’t really kept in touch and August has passed. I’m finally moving back next week, but he’s back with his girlfriend. I know bc he posts photos on facebook.

    Is there anything I can do? I want to date him, but I don’t want to get hurt or for him to cheat on his girlfriend.

    skrillex4life
    skrillex4life
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    October 16, 2013 at 10:33 am #41281

    I say move back and gently restore contact via a text or Facebook. Be patient and if he really loves you things will fall into place naturally. Don’t rush anything.

    gbSWFBUIo
    gbSWFBUIo
    Participant
    October 16, 2013 at 10:34 am #41283

    Sounds like he moved on and you should too.


    catcat789
    Participant
    October 28, 2013 at 1:29 am #41975

    That sucks. I get what youre saying.. Try to move on. Sucks to hear, but its the truth.