My boyfriend broke up with me because of a ridiculous idea

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My boyfriend broke up with me because of a ridiculous idea

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    Vince27
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    January 13, 2015 at 11:03 pm #70539
    My boyfriend broke up with me because of a ridiculous idea

    Good day.

    I’m 21, bisexual guy. I’ve been into a 5-mo. relationship with another bi guy. Sadly, we broke up last Jan. 10 and it went unexpectedly.

    To give a background, he’s my first romantic relationship. He pursued me and promised to break my walls. I loved him back deeply because of his efforts and thoughtfulness.

    Last Jan. 8 was our 5th month. There were no signs whatsoever of conflict. Then I discovered that he was chatting with a girl on FB. He was working and we are both closeted except to his family. Since the girl showed motive first, I thought he was just riding and covering himself on their office. But when I confronted him, he said that he is already pursuing the girl. The ridiculous idea is HE WANTED TO START A FAMILY because of jealousy of his brother and sisters who have “normal” hetero relationship.

    I asked him what went wrong and he said nothing. I’m a fine man and he still loves me so much but he must let me go. I think he’s confused. What’s my chances?


    Vince27
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    January 16, 2015 at 12:32 am #70910

    I hope to hear some of your comments please. 🙂


    SupaJones
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    January 17, 2015 at 1:10 am #71190

    I may not be able to give you the best advice since this is not my “field of play”, but I think you need some advice.

    First off, I see how your partner and now friend wants to pursue a family with a female. I think this may be only natural for him since he swings both ways. Not saying that two men don’t have the abilities to start and raise a family, but it seems to me that your ex now sees women as him primary goal or target. I don’t think him leaving you is a sign that you were the problem, he might have just thought that he needs to get with a women because he feels that way on the inside.

    Overall, he may have some regret and it may just be the best idea for you to let him go.


    ja1984
    Participant
    January 23, 2015 at 9:20 pm #71772

    How old is he?


    Vince27
    Participant
    January 26, 2015 at 8:30 am #71832

    We are both 21 yrs old.

    sparkeeoff07
    sparkeeoff07
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    February 13, 2015 at 11:43 pm #73450

    typical guy who trips out on liking the gay sex better but afraid to face reality and the other important people in his life his family for one to disconnect him or put him a tough times especially if they can’t let the staged idea of his sexual orientation be such a huge risk to loose them. He rather live a double life to satisfy both himself and his family.