My boyfriend told me to shut the f up

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My boyfriend told me to shut the f up

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    Summer20
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    November 3, 2015 at 2:57 am #87809
    My boyfriend told me to shut the f up

    Hello to everybody, my boyfriend and i have been in a long distance relationship for over more than a year. The relationship started really good, he as kind, he cared about me, he was really loving… but with the time those things have been disappearing. He told me he behaves this way because of the distance, because im not with him and he got used to it. Every time we met he is really excited and happy and he or I have to go back he can’t stop crying, he gets pretty sad. I have to say that he really likes playing in his pc, and if he loses he gets rly angry.

    So last night, after dinner i wrote him a message asking what was he doing and he didnt reply me so i thought he had lost and he was angry, i was right. He told me to leave him alone, so i did. After some time he told me not to write him tomorrow, that if he wanted to talk to me we would do it, i asked him why and he told me to shut the f up. That made me really sad i was crying for a while. It isnt the first time.


    Summer20
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    November 3, 2015 at 2:59 am #87810

    I continue here: later he wrote me “why the hell girls can’t the stfu when i ask it?; why can’t you leave me alone when i ask it?; what is not so hard in not asking back and just leave alone?” Being honest im getting tired of this relationship, im the only one that fight for it, at least that is what i see. He has called me stupid several times too, he told me “i hate people with lower iq than me”. I hope you can help me guys

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    November 3, 2015 at 10:09 am #87825

    Firstly sweetheart, he’s making excuses for his behaviour, telling you to stfu is not very nice behaviour at all….do you really wanna carry on with someone who doesn’t listen to you? He seems to be on the abusive side of things… Belittling you like that’s not acceptable.
    He sounds quite mean and very angry, maybe time to wave goodbye.