My crush

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My crush

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    McL23
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    January 5, 2017 at 12:24 am #121773
    My crush

    My crush and I work together. We had a party for the holidays with co-workers and he did the live music. He write his own songs and played a few at the party. Afterwards I went up to him and talked about music so I told him I listen to his music and he was blushing plus shocked that I knew the names of older songs he’s recorded. I was wondering about going to one of his gigs but I don’t want to come of as stalker-ish lol. Or should I just go and support? Also someone told him that I like him which is why I have second thoughts about going.


    Anonymous
    January 6, 2017 at 8:06 pm #122125

    So you said your crush, but you have yet to communicate to him that you like him or would like to date him? You have no idea yet if the feeling is mutual and he would like to date you? The relationship has not progressed yet past the imaginary relationship stage, a crush. The longer you stay in the crush phase without taking action the more it will hurt you if he turns you down. You should stop wasting time and find out for sure if he feels the same way about you. Tell him you like him and ask him out.


    McL23
    Participant
    January 6, 2017 at 9:25 pm #122127

    I don’t see him often at work but when I do we have conversation and music plus he’s in a band. We don’t know each other which is why I’m trying to be friends with him first so we can get to know each. I’m just not trying to come off too strong or stalker-ish by showing up to his gigs. Which goes back to my question about going to his gigs.

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    AcesDJD
    Participant
    January 8, 2017 at 11:26 am #122152

    Forget about telling him you like him, just ask him out. This isn’t the 1800s, as long as your feminine in other ways guys wont mind a bit if you ask them out. Can’t guarantee he’ll say yes, but that’s the chance everyone takes in dating.