My fault or his? Should I be worried?

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My fault or his? Should I be worried?

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    justme23
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    August 2, 2017 at 3:11 pm #144064
    My fault or his? Should I be worried?

    Hi all
    I have a problem which I need advice on. I hope someone can help. I have been dating a guy for around four months now. A few nights ago we had dinner and a few drinks, we both ended up tipsy. Late that night we went to bed as you do and one thing lead to another. Previously I discussed with him that I had to come off my pill because it was causing me problems. We were in his room in the dark and we started to take each other’s clothes off as things got more heated. Before anything happened I said to him we need to use protection and reminded him about the pill. He agreed. Again as we kept kissing I gently reminded him again and he said yeah we can use a condom, so at this he excused himself to go and lock his front door and came back and went into his drawer , which I assumed was to get a condom. He came back and we started kissing again and next thing he moves inside me and we have sex. A few minutes later he pulled out and ejaculated on to my stomach, this is when I then ….


    justme23
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    August 2, 2017 at 3:13 pm #144065

    this is when I then realise he hadn’t went and got a condom after all. For whatever reason I did not say anything to him at the time , probably due to having. A few drinks but I know I should have. But now I am left feeling angry. My question is though is this my fault for not double checking when he entered me? I feel so worried I could be pregnant but I’m not sure who’s fault this all is , mine or his. I’m not sure what to think. I feel disrespected. The next morning he attempted to have sex with me again without one but I said no. He replied it’s ok I pulled out last night in plenty time and said he would do that again to which said no.any advice would be greatly appreciated. What would you do In This situation? Am I at fault here or him? Thank you