My fiance ' s ex is married to his best friend and it's ruining my life

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My fiance ' s ex is married to his best friend and it's ruining my life

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    hopeful
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    August 3, 2014 at 5:52 pm #58742
    My fiance ' s ex is married to his best friend and it's ruining my life

    I am recently engaged to a man I’ve been with for 5 years. However, his best friend/business partner is married to his ex-gf. Since I’ve met her, we have not gotten along and when we announced our engagement she was clearly not happy for me. Over the years, she has been standoffish and bitchy to me but overly friendly and inappropriate with my fiance (giving him gifts, showing up where he is, flirting). My fiance throws up his hands and claims he can’t do anything except be nice to her and claims she is just being sweet and thoughtful, not inappropriate…I am at a point where I am rethinking marrying him solely due to the fact that I don’t think I can deal with her being in our lives forever, which she certainly would be. I feel it is a grenade waiting to explode and that no solution exists. I am lost and we started couple counseling but nothing has seemed promising. The idea oflosing him over this breaks my heart but at the same time, I don’t want a marriage full of misery. Help!