my first impression

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my first impression

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    username_25
    username_25
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    November 8, 2012 at 12:51 pm #15539
    my first impression

    What I mean is, my first impression on someone else, not of myself. I was just thinking, a lot of people tend to feel insecure by my body artwork and they’re intimidated. It’s funny on the other side of things that when I’m covered up and don’t expose any of them, people behave so differently…

    YouGuessedIt
    YouGuessedIt
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    November 8, 2012 at 2:55 pm #15582

    stay confident, it’s the sexiest thing a girl could be. regardless of tattoos or anything else external.


    pseudogf
    Participant
    November 8, 2012 at 4:06 pm #15608

    Amen, don’t let someone’s awkward behavior stunt you. Flaunt it if you want to, but don’t hide anything

    CleoKnows
    CleoKnows
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    November 8, 2012 at 4:12 pm #15615

    I disagree. I think women who “flaunt it” are asking for trouble. Of course people behave differently around you when you cover your tattoos. With your tattoos exposed, you seem most likely seem like a reckless, edge-of-your-seat kind of girl, the kind who would go to nude beaches or eat very spicy curry. So you get treated different than when they’re covered up, when you might seem more normal and even-headed.

    username_25
    username_25
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    November 8, 2012 at 4:22 pm #15624

    Hey b.tch, you seem like you really got me figured out. Not only do I go to nude beaches, where i play nude volleyball, and love spicy food, but i also do lines of cocaine off the sidewalk in broad daylight.

    You tap into ridiculous stereotypes all you want. Youre exactly the kind of person i’m talking about, who make snap judgments of people just based on there appearance.


    SoupForTheSoul
    Participant
    November 9, 2012 at 3:46 pm #15781

    Yikes, username_25. No offense, but you kind of sound like youre just proving CleoKnow’s point.

    stevie
    stevie
    Participant
    November 23, 2012 at 2:48 pm #17154

    It always amazes how people judge others by their appearance. When you sit down and talk to that person and get to know them, your opinion changes. I’m not perfect but I try my best not to judge others.


    manson7
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    January 29, 2016 at 9:41 am #92419

    Amen, don’t let someone’s awkward behavior stunt you. Flaunt it if you want to, but don’t hide anything

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    likecoffee
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    January 29, 2016 at 6:20 pm #92440

    Honestly, whenever i see someone taken back by someone else’s body work it makes me wonder how and what they were taught to think that way.
    If i was covered in tattoos and someone acted differently when they saw them for the first time I’d think more of how they came to form that opinion rather than thinking ‘oh no here we go again’.

    Take advantage of it all, show off what you have, be proud and confident in your inner self and outter self. At the end of the day it’s all we have.