My GF is 20 years older than me. Would you keep it up?

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My GF is 20 years older than me. Would you keep it up?

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    Richardinlove22
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    February 15, 2017 at 3:42 pm #127115
    My GF is 20 years older than me. Would you keep it up?

    I’m 21 she’s 41. I love this women, she loves me to. But sometimes I wonder if I’m ahead of myself. Never have I been into someone my age like this. She also has 3 kids. 2 are older than me. Only concern here is age but I really like her


    tennesee47
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    February 15, 2017 at 7:02 pm #127165

    At 21, you really have not fully developed emotionally. For me at least, years 25-30 was where I really matured and knew what I wanted to do in life. But, that is just me.


    beck
    Participant
    February 16, 2017 at 12:44 am #127176

    Hey, if you get along, great.


    Taz218
    Participant
    March 25, 2017 at 12:08 pm #131170

    Hello RichardInLove how long has this relationship been going on for now ? last year on my birthday (I turned 19) I got into a relationship with somebody 21 years older than me (she’s 40 for the people who can’t count) we have our ups and downs things can get real bad depending on how you look in the situation. Has she caught you in a lie ? do you feel like she’s talking to you like she’s your mom at times? how does her kids look at you do they see you as a friend/father/brother or just the person dating/screwing their mom? do you wonder why she stays with you? do you question if its ok? does she question if its ok? theirs a lot but me personally i dont see anything wrong with it girls my age are dating 35-50 y/o’s and nobody looks at them differently because it is common and more seen so why does it look bad when we do it ? and age isn’t anything but wisdom or trickery is she helping you achieve goals vise versa or is she using you and vise versa really think about it.


    Taz218
    Participant
    March 25, 2017 at 12:08 pm #131171

    I hope you reply its nice to know im not the only one wondering

    Brad5150
    Brad5150
    Participant
    March 26, 2017 at 1:13 am #131177

    Absolutely. Its just a number


    Ashb00
    Participant
    March 27, 2017 at 4:49 am #131204

    I agree, as long as your happy with each other


    PeterArnold
    Participant
    March 27, 2017 at 11:16 am #131240

    if you guys are happy thats okay


    fencer girl
    Participant
    March 27, 2017 at 4:10 pm #131286

    It’s really up to you what you’re comfortable with. I would proceed with caution though.