My girlfriend of around 2 years and I are considering breaking up…

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My girlfriend of around 2 years and I are considering breaking up…

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  • ReneeL9
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    August 22, 2016 at 3:45 pm #109065
    My girlfriend of around 2 years and I are considering breaking up…

    I want to preface this by saying 90% of our relationship is great.

    She is a few years younger than me (we are both in our 20s) which has created some complications in terms of place in life/experience.

    Recently it came to light that she has concerns when she thinks about our future. Some of which are not having diverse relationship experience and that maybe we moved too fast. As we talked about our future, it also became obvious that we (and particularly she) differentiated on some things when we saw our lives together.

    We are both bi, but found that we connected better with women. However, as part of this discussion, it got brought up she was beginning to see herself with a man because it would allow her to have a “traditional/normal” family (things I am not sure if I want).

    I am just really struggling with how to handle this. I know that I could probably fight it, we could hang on a little longer, but it seems like a breakup is inevitable. Advice?