My good financial situation means I disconnected with dates


My good financial situation means I disconnected with dates

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    November 23, 2015 at 3:48 pm #88878
    My good financial situation means I disconnected with dates

    So I’m not here to brag. But essentially at the age of 32 I’ve saved my money, invested wisely and worked hard to establish a good career for myself. I don’t flaunt my wealth but at the same time I don’t hide.

    What I’m finding though is that when I’m dating someone it is really hard to relate. I get into conversations about topics such as:
    * how the property market is so expensive and how they one day want to save up enough for a house deposit (I already have multiple properties)
    * stressing over having enough money to pay bill
    * having personal loans, etc

    I’m not putting down my dates. I’ve met a lot of lovely girls. But I feel like I’m in a different place as things they fret a lot about pretty laissez for me. Sort of like the journey of moving in and saving up for a house deposit. And having to budget. Where as with me I know that isn’t my situation. Really don’t know. A lot of young couples would have financial hardships where as I’m like “nope, already over that hurdle”

    November 28, 2015 at 9:27 am #89010

    Get over yourself and find something other than money to talk about. There’s always someone richer or poorer than you.

    December 2, 2015 at 5:48 am #89234

    Sounds tough. I can t relate to people outside my income bracket. Maybe make some business connections and date a Small business owner??