My gut tells me to chase…I just don't know. but I feel something there…

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My gut tells me to chase…I just don't know. but I feel something there…

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    Pipeliner85
    Pipeliner85
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    February 8, 2015 at 5:44 pm #72848
    My gut tells me to chase…I just don't know. but I feel something there…

    I work with this guy who is an engineer. He comes and gets the right parts from me to continue production. We exchanged these glances, and I have caught him several times watching me and i would turn abruptly and he would just drop his head and then just continue on without saying anything and scurry off. I always feel a different vibe around him, it never fails. the other day he was in the office and saw my birthday which was the next day. i was not in there but he interrogated a girl i work with asking, is it really his birthday, will he be at work, does he have to work. She said he got this big goofy grin with the whole commotion. Every time we are around each other we have very good eye contact, out of the normal range. I found out yesterday that he got another engineering job in the city. I want to make a move, but don’t know what that should be. I am very overcautious. I have his number from a directory at work. I have never felt the gut-wrenching that I feel around him. To do??

    pandorasbox
    pandorasbox
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    February 15, 2015 at 9:56 am #73367

    I would definitely chase. If he acts exactly as you say and has been asking about you than he is probably into you. You could try calling him and just asking him if he wants to get a drink sometime or just hang out and grab lunch. Something simple and not to out there so he doesn’t get scared and back off.

    pandorasbox
    pandorasbox
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    February 15, 2015 at 9:56 am #73368

    Would you rather wonder what could have been if you chased? or would you rather go for it and actually find out what could happen. This is the time to do it.