My lesbian girlfriend is straight now?

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My lesbian girlfriend is straight now?

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    doomsdayzombie
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    August 21, 2015 at 11:55 pm #84557
    My lesbian girlfriend is straight now?

    My lesbian girlfriend of three years revealed she is now straight. We’ve been working through it but a lot has changed. Sex for example is very different. She says shes into it but she never looks like it anymore. She told me that sometimes she gets male urges and feels like having sex with a male. I try my best to “satisfy” this by roleplaying and pretending to be a male. You get the idea. I hate it lol. But it makes her happy.. I dunno, she gets really turned on. Like a lot. But when it’s just us.. she’s never that turned on. It kills me. I don’t know what to do? I need advice? Help?

    We were planning on getting married but I’m scared now. I don’t want to settle down, have kids and then have her tell me in later years she wants to go and date a male. I don’t know what to do. Everything was so perfect. I look at lesbians couples now and just wish I had that. I know it’s stupid but I feel.. like im not in a gay relationship? I know it sounds weird but I can’t explain it. I dunno. Advice please?

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    darthzaria
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    August 24, 2015 at 9:38 am #84627

    This is an odd situation. I have pretty newly bisexual girlfriend who in the beginning didn’t like having sex with me because she still considered herself straight and it already echoed in her head that she saw me as a woman. At that time she said the idea of me touching her was disgusting. However, over time she said she began to see me as a man. Nowadays she has really gotten into the relationship and the sex as well and likes me for my female body parts. So, I kind of feel like I understand where you’re coming from. Although, in my situation I’m a female who sees herself as a man so it wasn’t so hurtful to me.

    I think…you should consider what you want. If pretending that you’re a male dissatisfies you then you shouldn’t have to do it. You deserve a sexual experience you can enjoy with someone who wants you for who you are. In my opinion you shouldn’t have to make yourself uncomfortable to please her. It’s really a question of whether you can be happy in this situation.


    Laureliza0101
    Participant
    October 9, 2015 at 8:02 pm #86756

    Look, pretty simple. Break up with her. You don’t have to go through this and pretend to be like a male and not be yourself. If she says she is straight then let her go with a man no matter how much it hurts. You don’t deserve to be humiliated. Some girls just pretend to be lesbian for sex and they play around with girls and then get bored because they don’t know what they want.