Need advice – Am I crazy?


Need advice – Am I crazy?

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    January 31, 2014 at 7:27 am #46974
    Need advice – Am I crazy?

    Ok – so I met this girl about 10 years ago at a job. At the time she was married and so was I. I thought , wow she is beautiful and would like to get to know her. I was faithful to my marriage and respected hers and never said or did anything. Not to long after I got a job were her husband was my supervisor. Me and her ex were kinda friends, but not best friends. Fast forward several years. We remained friends over time and briefly kept in contact. Now we are both divorced and have began talking. Her ex husband is no longer my supervisor. She tells me she had the same feeings as I did back when we first met. We have been talking for about a week and have been getting along great. It’s kinda scary how well things are going. We have our first date in a couple of days. I pretty much know what to expect, just want other’s opinions. My question/questions are
    What should expect on our first date, not as in sex.
    Am I crazy for dating my supervisor’s ex wife?
    Any other advice or suggestions

    February 1, 2014 at 10:07 pm #47040

    You are not crazy, I am friends with a girl whose mother and step father were high school sweethearts, married and had kids separately, both got divorced, found each other again and are now happily married…both divorced and single, fair game go for it!

    February 4, 2014 at 1:04 am #47140

    Go for it and just catch up on loss time. Just take it slow and see what happens.

    February 4, 2014 at 11:23 pm #47212

    Agree with what WARRIOR says. It sounds like you two already know each other quite well so this date should be fun and easy. See where it leads to after that.

    February 5, 2014 at 3:26 am #47214

    Not at all! If it works, it works. You have obviously had plenty of time to get to know each other. You know what she’s like to an extent. Some of the “hard part” is already over.