Need advice from a. Guy about a guy?!! FWB or chance of more??! Help!!

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Need advice from a. Guy about a guy?!! FWB or chance of more??! Help!!

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    confusedgirl23
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    May 2, 2016 at 4:55 am #99370
    Need advice from a. Guy about a guy?!! FWB or chance of more??! Help!!

    FWB or more?????! HELP!
    So I been talking with this guy for bout 3 months now, but it’s only been the past 3 weeks that we’ve hung out a lot.. I’ve started gettin attached and really liking him and I told him I can see myself fallior him eventually and ultimately I’m lookin for more than just FWB.. I told him that if FWB is all he wants maybe we should cut all ties cuz I don’t wanna end up Fallin for him if all he wants is FWB he told me ” he would give it some deep thought and let me know”
    Later that night he comes over but only cuddles didn’t try to Intiate anything sexual jus held me kisses my forehead few times and we fell asleep for couple hours then he had to leave, he gives me hug and kiss everytime he leaves he always messages me we talk a lot and it’s not just bout sex it’s bout our lives and such he’s told me some really personal things bout his childhood and stuff but I just still can’t tell if he’s a player or if this is going nowhere :/
    I really like him & i just don’t


    confusedgirl23
    Participant
    May 2, 2016 at 7:49 am #99371

    That’s supposed to say “see myself falling for him”.
    And the end say: ” I just don’t know what to do?”
    It wouldn’t let me fix it for some reason..


    BensontheMeak
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    May 2, 2016 at 10:44 pm #99540

    It seems to me like he’s trying to be the guy you want. If you were having sex and now he stopped initiating after your conversation he might be trying to be a different person for you, or even just trying to imagine for himself what a non-sex centric relationship with you might be like.

    Perhaps it’s one of those, or perhaps it’s a ploy and he’s not a good person. Either way, your response should be the same. You’ve told him how you’re feeling, given him time to think about it, so now it’s his turn to give you something more than vague signals. Bring it up again and talk about it.