Need advice to put things in perspective.

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Need advice to put things in perspective.

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    GaryClone76
    GaryClone76
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    July 30, 2017 at 4:48 pm #143616
    Need advice to put things in perspective.

    I’m new to online dating and to be frank, never been good at any kind of dating period. Yet, something interesting happened this weekend. On Friday I started messaging a woman and we started connecting talking about movies. Things went well and both promised to chat again. On Saturday she asks me to go see a movie, but as friend, no dating pressure. I said sure. Got to the movie early and we talked for a half hour before it started. Both enjoyed the movie so I asked her if she wanted to get dinner afterwards. She politely declined. Said she had to get home for her daughter. She even gave me her phone number right away and we started texting a little today. I tend to get over excited about things and just was wondering what others thought of this series of events.

    Thank you.


    yodeman18
    Participant
    July 30, 2017 at 5:38 pm #143617

    Sounds like it went well. If she didn’t want another date she probably would not have given you her number after. I would ask her out again.

    GaryClone76
    GaryClone76
    Participant
    July 30, 2017 at 7:51 pm #143622

    Thank you. I plan on it. I know there is another movie she is really looking forward to that comes out in a couple weeks, but I would also like to go someplace more conducive to longer conversations. I’ve never tried dating a woman with kids before so I wasn’t sure if her response to possible dinner was honest or an excuse.


    yodeman18
    Participant
    July 31, 2017 at 12:42 pm #143701

    I wouldn’t go on another movie date. Movies are tough since you can’t really have conversations.