Need help! about ex. Boyfriend…

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Need help! about ex. Boyfriend…

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    WillLuvsBailee
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    November 27, 2015 at 2:10 am #89046
    Need help! about ex. Boyfriend…

    So, me and Bailee (Girl i REALLY like) have been friends for a while, until she changed schools. A year or two after she left we got in contact again, and became VERY CLOSE friends. I eventually worked up enough courage to ask her out, and she turned me down :C But then a few days later, she contacted me again and said she wanted to talk to me about something IMPORTANT. So i called her back, and she asked me out. We were giong out for a couple weeks, and everything was good untill she texted one day about something else important. So I called and asked if she was okay, etc. and she said the reason she asked me out was to hopefully fill the “void” between her and her EX Boyfriend… (Which apparently didn’t work) But I don’t know what to do… I have never had a “REAL” relationship before and even though this relationship only lasted a few weeks, I have VERY STRONG feelings for her. Please help, I don’t know what to do…

    GWG
    GWG
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    November 28, 2015 at 2:56 pm #89087

    Sounds like she’s kinda using you here bud. It sounds like a rebound situation which can be hurtful for you if you really like her. Best way to handle this is to ask her if she still has feeling for her ex boyfriend. If she says yeah, then tell her you can’t become to invested in her if she isn’t 100% focused on you.


    Vantage802
    Participant
    November 29, 2015 at 11:55 am #89098

    Get out while you still can. You’re being used, and that will almost never translate to something good.


    Jason7
    Participant
    December 2, 2015 at 4:38 am #89229

    The best relationship is with a girl who likes you more than you like her. Move on there someone better out there.