Need help I'm so confused, don't know what to do!

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Need help I'm so confused, don't know what to do!

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    IlyasHefe
    IlyasHefe
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    August 30, 2015 at 5:22 am #84933
    Need help I'm so confused, don't know what to do!

    Hello, couple weeks ago me and my friends went on a birthday party. My friend is friend with the girl that was hosting the party(Lets call her Alpha). So we hanged out 3 guys and two girls. The second girl (lets call her Bravo) is the girl I’m interested. My friend was also interested but he let her for me. So we had a good time the first time we all hanged out. A couple of days later I started chating with Bravo on Facebook. She was very nice the first time asking back questions etc. Next time I chated (through Facebook) with her she was less talkative and not in the mood for chating, so it was a smalltalk. Since that time she is less talkative and never asks back a question. Now her friend Alpha likes someone of us three guys. And I’m afraid she could like me and her friend Bravo is backing up. The big problem now is that I was texting Bravo the other day and asked her out. She responded me I don’t think so, because I have already arranged for tonight.

    IlyasHefe
    IlyasHefe
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    August 30, 2015 at 5:33 am #84934

    Meanwhile my friend was arranging for another hang out with Alpha and her friends. So this night we hanged out and Bravo came too. My friend told Alpha that I would be there this night and Alpha was with Bravo. Now when we hanged out I was in bad mood of what happened and I was hardly talking to Bravo. Bravo was teasing a lot my friend and got me thinking. Before we say goodnight and everyone went to his home I talked a little to Bravo and seemed nice. What am I supposed to do now? Should I start chating with her on Facebook or what? Also I don’t know anymore what to discuss with her. It’s difficult whe she does not ask questions back you know. Also I don’t want to give up on her, I’m tired of moving on when someone does not like me or whatever. I want this time to succeed with her because I like her very much and I’m kinda obsessed. Lol. Anyway help me guys proceed what should I do? I forgot to mention that she never texted me first.