NEED HELP! – Is she interested?

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NEED HELP! – Is she interested?

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    AnimatedAneurin
    AnimatedAneurin
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    December 10, 2017 at 11:40 pm #159617
    NEED HELP! – Is she interested?

    So I’ve been talking to a girl online for a while now and she seems really interested. Our conversations are always long and it’s always in paragraphs, we have a lot in common too! I have asked her to meet up but she says she’s a seasonal worker and will let me know when she’s free

    My problem is that she’s recently becoming more quiet and I’m worried that she might of lost interest.

    I really like this girl and I don’t want to mess it up but I feel like she’s being weird with me (being quiet, possibly avoiding the meet up)

    AnimatedAneurin
    AnimatedAneurin
    Participant
    December 12, 2017 at 3:18 pm #159858

    Bump!


    jd3399
    Participant
    December 16, 2017 at 1:59 pm #160281

    Wait a few days to a week and try again


    annon12121
    Participant
    December 17, 2017 at 1:54 am #160287

    Definitely wait a little while. Maybe see if she will spark a conversation with you.
    If not, try again in a few days. But if you are that worried just ask her straight up

    AnimatedAneurin
    AnimatedAneurin
    Participant
    December 17, 2017 at 5:44 am #160288

    Thanks guys for responding!
    Since I’ve made this post she has replied! But she still avoids the question of meeting up :/ is this normal?

    AnimatedAneurin
    AnimatedAneurin
    Participant
    December 21, 2017 at 4:15 pm #160771

    The girl I’m talking to always replies to the question with “soon” or something similar, it makes me feel like she doesn’t want to meet up and maybe she’s only talking to me for attention :/


    obrady9
    Participant
    December 26, 2017 at 1:49 pm #160903

    Honestly … watch the tv show catfish.


    powerfulwords
    Participant
    December 26, 2017 at 3:54 pm #161028

    Take it a bit slow maybe. It might only be that she is shy to meet you in person. Give it some time and then see where it goes.

    AnimatedAneurin
    AnimatedAneurin
    Participant
    December 29, 2017 at 10:52 am #161075

    We’ve not long ago had are first few video chats so I doubt she’s a catfish. So I think she’s just very shy, hopefully I’ll be able to meet up with her soon 🙂


    acetopwon
    Participant
    December 29, 2017 at 8:53 pm #161106
    Reply To: NEED HELP! – Is she interested?

    Looks like it!


    acetopwon
    Participant
    December 29, 2017 at 8:54 pm #161107
    Reply To: NEED HELP! – Is she interested?

    You got this, dont be scared


    Remay19
    Participant
    January 1, 2018 at 12:39 pm #161151
    Reply To: NEED HELP! – Is she interested?

    She’s probably busy, just wait a bit then ease back into it

    teufel21
    teufel21
    Participant
    January 13, 2018 at 9:11 pm #162395
    Reply To: NEED HELP! – Is she interested?

    How long have you been chatting with her?, I hate to be the cynic in this, she may just seeking gratification or just be bored, (heck, she might already be in a relationship.) If this person was truly interested I think she would have found the time to meet up with you.

    Even if I am a cynic, I can still be optimistic, she may be invariably busy or stalling (like frantically trying to get into shape before meeting you, ive done this.) You could try the ‘ultimatum/choice’ trick, where you offer two choices like, “hey this week I want to take you out and I only have two available evenings, Monday or Friday night, your pick,” one thats not ideal and one that is, this works in two ways, one: it makes the person compelled to make a choice (that choice being going out with you.) number two: they feel that even though they’re having to make a choice, they feel good about it.

    gl


    jennabriltz
    Participant
    January 14, 2018 at 12:05 am #162397
    Reply To: NEED HELP! – Is she interested?

    Take it slow. It’s not a rush she has probably gotten busy with her life.


    amandarose
    Participant
    January 16, 2018 at 8:58 am #162420
    Reply To: NEED HELP! – Is she interested?

    Ask her to hang out one more time, with a specific date/time. Like, Hey, want to grab a drink this weekend? If she turns you down I think you should move on. Don’t waste your time.

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