Need help on first date

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Need help on first date

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    Thatgirl
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    November 16, 2015 at 2:25 pm #88550
    Need help on first date

    Iv been asked to out by a guy I met in a club one night. We’ve been texting each for 3 weeks so it’s about time we meet up. There’s not much to do in my town and he just suggested that he will collect me but doesn’t want to go to the pub! I really don’t know what else we could do though!! I think going for dinner is too formal and the cinema is out of the question. Im a bit nervous about seeing because we were drunk when we met so im really nervous that I don’t look like the image he may have of me. Anyways any first date suggestions?


    Thatgirl
    Participant
    November 16, 2015 at 2:30 pm #88555

    A few more specifics: we can only meet up in the evening and s week day. Getting into a car with him too kind of scares me!!

    kayla0322
    kayla0322
    Participant
    November 17, 2015 at 1:11 am #88592

    You can suggest that you do a pizza at the same time,or do some volunteer work for someone.


    Thatgirl
    Participant
    November 17, 2015 at 8:40 am #88557

    A few more specifics: we can only meet up in the evening and a week day. Getting into a car with him too kind of scares me!!


    jojo1991
    Participant
    November 17, 2015 at 2:03 pm #88611

    You control the terms is the best advice to give


    Sugarlessgirl
    Participant
    November 25, 2015 at 10:50 pm #89007

    Would you consider lunch if not dinner? I’ve heard lunch was a lot more casual.


    Anonymous
    November 26, 2015 at 2:10 am #89012

    Yes, lunch would be a good option rather then dinner.


    FrenziedStarFish
    Participant
    November 26, 2015 at 3:58 pm #89022

    If you’re afraid to get into the car with him right now, I suggest to meet at whatever place you choose and instead of a dinner date, why not the movies or, go ice skating somewhere. Do a fun activity together that will help you get to know each other better.


    Anonymous
    December 21, 2015 at 8:54 am #90311

    Is there bowling or mini-gulf? Or maybe a walk in a very public park? Do NOT get into the car with him. If you don’t have a car, spend money on a taxi or an uber (if your city is large enough to have ubers). I always, always, meet up with a guy for the first date. You control the situation. You may tell him, “Hey, I feel more comfortable meeting up @ ________ place, so let’s do that.” You don’t need to explain yourself to him any more than stating you’re not comfortable. Love the ice skating idea that @frenziedstarfish posted.

    Good luck.