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    emperor_sergei
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    December 15, 2016 at 2:15 am #120215
    Need some help and advice here

    Hello everybody 🙂 first of all I’m sorry if my english isn’t that good because it’s not my native language

    I’m 20 y.o man dating 19 y.o girl for about 1 year and 3 months

    Last year as a freshman in the college, I actually falling love with another girl, we called her C from now on and surprisingly C liked me back, and I’m positively at that time about C is going to be my gf but for some condition C can’t accept me after I confessed my love to her because she actually want to quit from the uni and moved out to another region, quite far from where I lived. C doesn’t want to have a long distance relationship because she’s the type that “really missing someone soooo much”, leaving my speechless and brokenhearted.

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    emperor_sergei
    Participant
    December 15, 2016 at 2:26 am #120216

    And 26 days after C left me brokenhearted, I secretly dating my classmate, we called T from now on. T and I actually quite good for the first 3 or 4 months, we already had sex and so on. But after those good days, the storm is coming, We had a lot of fights arguments, turned out that she’s lazy and can’t do anything, it’s me that cooking, washing dishes and so on. Her ego is big and I’m not gonna lie about mine either, but she can’t accept a single little thing about like if I give her an advice, and she didn’t like it she will pouting or slam the door not really that loud but I know that she didn’t happy with my advice. After fights and arguments, she only setled it with crying that I wanted it or not sometimes I’m that gave in. I think more come to here, I don’t love anymore because I still wish I could turn back time at least not dating T, because I think it’s a mistake, big mistake…

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    emperorsergei2
    Participant
    December 15, 2016 at 2:43 am #120222

    What should I do? I know the answer is break up, but I’m not really have the heart to do it so because she is not from here, her hometown is 8 hour from this town by train, so she doesn’t have so much friend and family to watched her in here. I’m scared that she will going crazy and do something insane, suicide is the worst case of it.
    In my opinion, I’m going to break with her next year on the end of term holidays, so she get about 3 months with her friends and family..What do you think guys? And how to break up without leaving so much scar in her? What kind of word that I must choose to say to her?

    That’s all guys and Thank You


    emperor_sergei
    Participant
    December 15, 2016 at 8:53 am #120217

    What should I do? I know the answer is break up, but I’m not really have the heart to do it so because she is not from here, her hometown is 8 hour from this town by train, so she doesn’t have so much friend and family to watched her in here. I’m scared that she will going crazy and do something insane, suicide is the worst case of it.
    In my opinion, I’m going to break with her next year on the end of term holidays, so she get about 3 months with her friends and family..What do you think guys? And how to break up without leaving so much scar in her? What kind of word that I must choose to say to her?

    That’s all guys and Thank You so much
    God Bless 🙂