Need some help with this one!


Need some help with this one!

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    July 7, 2014 at 4:56 pm #56840
    Need some help with this one!

    I meet this nice girl while on vacation. She has it all going for her smart beautifully and likes being out side we hang out for a little bit and though the rest of vacation we keep meeting up unexpectedly and hanging out. But the problem is she live about 6 hours away and i don’t have a car yet i just need help knowing i show ask her out or is it stupid and i should just leave it.

    July 7, 2014 at 10:40 pm #56841

    Love is powerful and it can overpower many obstacles but you need to look at it in a logical point of view before you make any decisions. Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain, unless you are willing to move to her area. If you do not have the resources to relocate or the patience/money to drive that six hours to maintain the relationship, it will be unsteady.

    On a more personal note: I was messaging a guy on online dating and he insisted a relationship could work between us, despite the distance. He claimed he could drive to my area every time we wanted to see each other. I told him that would’ve created a one-sided relationship because he would be the one doing all of the “accessing” and I felt that would be unfair.

    July 8, 2014 at 7:53 pm #56961

    It’s a shame you live so far away but if you think shes worth it and shes on your mind quite a bit then i wouldn’t give up if i was you. At least have a crack at it so you know if it was worth it or not. Might be the best thing you ever done. But maintaining a long distance relationship sounds like it can be pretty difficult to keep, but people still do it so it must work.

    July 10, 2014 at 11:12 am #57045

    I think if you truly like someone, you will find a way to make it work. Perhaps it maybe one sided at first but its good to test it and see where it all leads. If this person doesn’t do it for you, I wouldn’t waste the effort.

    However, don’t go wasting money (gas and drives, and time) if you don’t have the resources to do so either. At the end of the day, you also have to look out for your well being. Lust and love can make you do crazy things, right?

    July 12, 2014 at 7:24 am #57323

    Of course ask her out! Tell her that you will probably be in her city someday and you would like to meet.

    Yes, that simple)

    July 13, 2014 at 7:10 pm #57348

    If you really really like her and you’re confident she feels the same way there’s nothing wrong with giving it a shot

    July 14, 2014 at 3:32 pm #57414

    Pursue it if you are really into her !

    July 31, 2014 at 4:19 am #58620

    You should ask her out! Try to see when you can be in her city. Good luck!