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    November 30, 2017 at 8:56 pm #158161

    a woman in my neighboring building has caught my eye. we have only met and spoken once in over a year, 2 weeks ago……..i only see her when she is parking or getting into her car, not an ideal time to start a conversation and much more of a crap shoot timing wise.
    i wanted to get the women of this forums advice on whether i should leave her a note…..she knows my name and who i am… its not like i am a total stranger………the note would simple and to the point …….. it was nice meeting you, couple personality traits i liked, an invite for a drink/hike and my number……..
    given the scenario………what do you ladies think?

    we are both in our mid-30’s if that means anything

    please and thank you.

    November 30, 2017 at 9:56 pm #158164

    I tried something similar to this once. Except the girl lived down the street and we were both like 19. Went to the same school but barely knew each other (she was 1 year below me). I asked her out, she said yes but nothing happened. Maybe this was partly due to me not giving an exact date/time/activity, maybe it was partly due to her. I really don’t know. No bad feelings now but if you do decide to do it, be assertive and firm on details 🙂 I’d give it a go bud.

    December 2, 2017 at 12:34 pm #158351

    She could have a boy friend. A note is too formal. You need a good easy going pick up line. Use one that says something about yourself, even if it is just a comment about its being a long day for you and see what kind of a response you get.

    December 2, 2017 at 10:56 pm #158360

    You just need to chat with her for a little and build the attraction.