Never dated at the age of 22

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Never dated at the age of 22

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    zoniet
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    August 30, 2017 at 11:54 am #147574
    Never dated at the age of 22

    I am 22 and I never had a bf before or ever dated. Guys never approach me for dates and never even approach me even for sex (so I guess that makes me a virgin also). I am also never hit on by guys or had a guy say he wants my number. I am 5’4 and weigh 125 lbs, so I am in good shape. I don’t really go to bars or clubs but I do go to grocery stores, coffee shops, restaurants, and malls. Once in a blue moon, a guy will check me out but it really doesn’t happen that often. I keep asking myself what is wrong with me? Why am I doing so poorly in the dating and love world. I literally feel forever alone and that I won’t find anyone. Can someone give me any advice?

    DarthVader
    DarthVader
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    September 6, 2017 at 8:47 am #148116

    Cant you behave like an extrovert, dress better or perhaps do the approaches?


    topbanana
    Participant
    September 6, 2017 at 10:27 pm #148401

    I’m almost 19, but I’m the same why. Are you shy? I am, and I think that plays a big role in it.

    ladygirl
    ladygirl
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    September 7, 2017 at 6:22 pm #148543

    Hey! that is totally okay.. it is better to way for the right one than just go desperate and make wrong decisions.


    Naam
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    September 8, 2017 at 12:36 am #148563

    I am also a shy type of girl. I never had a boyfriend. But I started talking to one of my friends. I started liking him
    . But later I found out he was using me


    pizzaisawesome
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    September 8, 2017 at 4:54 pm #148650

    The thing is, you have to go to places and socialize a bit, even if it’s a conference. In the nightlife setting, I would definitely go with friends for a bit of a confidence boost that your safety net is near by. Make sure you’re well-dressed for whatever occassion/event you attend. You also have to seem approachable. Even something as simple as smiling while you’re with your friends or making eye contact with someone. If you come across as guarded or closed off, people will pick up on that. Have a wing man if you need a bit of assistance in approaching someone. Also, don’t beat yourself up. How you talk to yourself will affect how you carry yourself and how people approach you. Remember, if you play your part, that’s a great start already. You’re bound to always get some result.