Never saw it coming…


Never saw it coming…

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    June 1, 2015 at 12:21 pm #79951
    Never saw it coming…

    It all started back in 2010/2011 when a buddy of mine and I drove out to a bar in the middle of no where to meet up with his ex girlfriend at that point. He introduced me to her and I had a few drinks. A few months later I get a Facebook friend request from someone who I had no idea I have never met before. I clicked on her page to see if I had ever met or crossed path with her somewhere, she looked familiar so I added her and messaged her asking how she knew me. I ended up talking to her and getting her number and talking to her daily either on the phone or through text messages. I met his ex girlfriend that night but it was a long night so I don’t remember so. I ended up adding her on Facebook, getting her number and talking to her daily. We struck up a friendship which turned into something a bit more serious.

    Well she told me that I was winning her over but there was another guy in the picture too. Well she ended up moving out of state to be with him.

    She reaches out to me

    June 1, 2015 at 12:28 pm #79952

    telling me she is unhappy with the guy she’s with. She told me she was back home for now and wanted to catch up. So I drove her to her new place and we talked and went for a walk until 3:15AM. Well before I left she walked me to my car and hugged me and started crying I had an idea why she was crying but just kept hugging her. What she says next is shocking to me. “I am sorry for everything I caused you four years ago, I love you and miss you.” She kept hugging me tighter and tighter. We kissed a few times and she said she was going to come back home since she was miserable also that she was divorcing the guy she was married to out of state. She tells me she wants to see me more when she has more time, her mom has health issues so I barely talk to her.

    I’m trying to make sense of all of this. Any help would be great!