New Boyfriend, his Japanese Ex and Me

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New Boyfriend, his Japanese Ex and Me

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    Skydancer
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    June 27, 2017 at 7:19 am #140677
    New Boyfriend, his Japanese Ex and Me

    I am with my boyfriend for just two months but we have already had long and deep conversations about us, our lives etc. We also had the ‘ex-talk’ not out of necessity, but because it came naturally in our discussions. So, he told me that his ex was Japanese and that what they had was very serious and deep. He also said that they didn’t have sex very often (they had a long distance thing but even when they were together this happened) but still he wanted for the relationship to work, but she broke up with him. One day we were both tense and we were talking about us and our behaviour to each other and he told me that he doesn’t know if he feels he’s ready to commit to something deep, because his previous relationship ended 4-5 months ago. After our talk however, he calmed down a lot and he said he felt closer to me and that this was a big step forward for us.
    Do you think I’m wasting my time? I also feel weird/jealous about his ex, but I can’t understand why. Any thoughts?

    • This topic was modified 2 months, 3 weeks ago by  Skydancer.

    davidbandon
    Participant
    June 28, 2017 at 4:33 pm #140904

    Just be patient. Sounds like he is a sensitive guy.