Not sure what to do…

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Not sure what to do…

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    moll533
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    July 16, 2014 at 12:12 pm #57615
    Not sure what to do…

    Hi,

    So I met this guy at a wedding last weekend and we got along great. He got my phone number from his friend and have talked back and forth a little bit, just kind of getting to know one another. He is my cousins’s husbands best friend, and according to her husband he is not very confident in dating and just kind of moves along at a slow pace. He has suggested getting together, but the day he suggested did not work for me. The conversation kind of fizzled out after that and it’s been a day ish since I have heard from him. He lives a couple hours away and I am actually flying out of the city next week, and will be flying back into the city the following Friday.
    Should I contact him and try to meet up with him, or just wait and see if I hear from him? I am just having trouble figuring out if there is a chance he is interested or not.


    CadenceMarcl
    Participant
    July 16, 2014 at 4:51 pm #57636

    Some guys are shy when it comes to girls. I think you should suggest to meet up.


    Anonymous
    July 16, 2014 at 8:17 pm #57640

    hunt him down like a cougar!

    Steven
    Steven
    Participant
    July 17, 2014 at 8:05 am #57643

    It would stink to let a possibly great relationship whither because of shyness. Be bold and mature about it. Shoot straight. Call him and tell him he seems nice and you would still want to continue things when you return and see where this takes the two of you. Tell him you’ll call next Saturday so in the mean time he can think of something fun to do. Don’t back down until you feel you’ve done your best to make it work. If he won’t meet you in the middle, let it go because the present holds a key to the future.


    moll533
    Participant
    July 17, 2014 at 3:27 pm #57664

    Thank you Steven.


    Broost
    Participant
    July 19, 2014 at 4:17 am #57815

    Well he told you he wants to hang out, but there were scheduling problems. That’s it. Don’t overanalyze it.


    hopelesspanzy24
    Participant
    July 21, 2014 at 3:26 pm #57893

    don’t sweat it! give it some time and ask again! (: